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These are the days

Yesterday was Thanksgiving.It was a low-key, intimate family gathering.I had much to be thankful for.The plentiful and tasty food was only a small part of it.It’s almost too easy to list the things I’m thankful for.Cute little baby sounds.The way Evie...

Snapshots: Four months and counting

In less than one week, Evie will be five months old. I’ve finally figured out how this happened. It’s based on the principles of Parent Time:The Primary Principle of Parent TimeDuring the first three months of your child’s life, time will slow to a...

Would you read this book?

Premise: A book about caring for and nurturing your marriage (or long-term romantic relationship) in the first year of your child’s life.Tone: Informative and witty.The authors: Me and Sam, in alternating chapters.Working title: “There’s no I in...

She’s drooling at a four-month level!

As a new parent, it’s easy to become obsessed with milestones.I often pull out my copy of “What to Expect in the First Year” to see how Evie measures up against the monthly checklists.In most areas, Evie is a superstar.She is 3 1/2 months old, and...

Snapshots

Today is Evie’s last day of that seldom-discussed age between 12 weeks and 3 months.As children grow, the units for measuring their ages grow longer. People speak of 2-day-olds, 6-week-olds, 8-month-olds, and 4-year-olds.People warn me to be careful, that...

I loved…

When I was a child, I loved my animals.Baby dolls were boring. Cabbage Patch Kids freaked me out. I only played Barbies under extreme duress from my friends.I shared my bedroom with approximately two dozen stuffed animals. If I try hard, I can form hazy pictures of a...

T.G.I.F.M.L.A.

This is the last day of my maternity leave. It’s been twelve weeks since my doctor advised a very pregnant me to stop working.It is hard not to feel a twinge of disappointment in myself.I didn’t do a scrapbooking project. I didn’t write every day. I...

Elegy to a feeding

The crackle of the baby monitor jolts me out of a dream. The room is silent. I wonder if I dreamed the whole thing. A moment later, I hear the next in a series of staccato pleas that intensify as I throw off the down comforter and roll my legs toward the floor.As I...

Evie’s first Easter

Today has been Easter.It was Evie’s first holiday.To prepare, Sam and I ventured to BabyGap and bought her an irresponsibly cute dress.This morning, we brought her to church, where I was terrified of being Those People With the Baby.Nobody wants to sit next to...